This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily picked stone and scratched lines on the side of the truck. In his anger, the man ran to his son, knocked him away. And took the little boy's hands and hit it many times as punishment, not realizing he was using a wrench. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the little boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father was so hurt. He went back to truck and kicked it a lot of times. Sitting back he looked at the scratches, little boy wrote "I LOVE YOU DAD." Later then committed suicide
براي خواندن داستان و ترجمه به ادامه مطلب برويد:
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the little boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father was so hurt. He went back to truck and kicked it a lot of times. Sitting back he looked at the scratches, little boy wrote "I LOVE YOU DAD." Later then committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones and hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes, because we human beings are not perfect. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever
هرچند كه پزشكان نهايت سعي خود را كردند تا استخوان هاي له شده را نجات دهند اما مجبور شدند انگشتان هر دو دست كودك را قطع كنند. وقتي كه كودك به هوش آمد و باندهاي دور دستهايش را ديد با حالتي مظلوم پرسيد؟بابا متاسفم براي وانتت اما انگشتان من كي در ميان؟پدر خيلي داغون به سوي وانتش برگشت و شروع به لگد زدن به ماشين كرد . بعد نشست و نگاه كرد به خط خطيهايي كه پسرش روي وانت كشيده بود . پسر كوچولويش نوشته بود . بابا عاشقتم . پدر بعد از خوندن اين نوشته خودكشي كرد.
نكته پندآموز اين حكايت:
دفعه ديگري كه كسي پاي شما را لگد كرد و يا خواستيد از كسي انتقام بگيريد اين داستان را به ياد آوريد. قبل از آنكه با كسي كه دوستش مي داريد صبر خود را از دست بدهيد كمي فكر كنيد. وانت را مي شود تعمير كرد. انگشتان شكسته و احساس آزرده را نمي توان ترميم كرد. در بسياري از موارد ما تفاوت بين شخص و عملكرد او را متوجه نمي شويم. ما فراموش مي كنيم كه بخشيدن با عظمت تر از انتقام گرفتن است.
مردم اشتباه مي كنند. ما هم مجاز هستيم كه اشتباه كنيم. ولي تصميمي كه در حال عصبانيت مي گيريم تا آخر عمر دامان ما را مي گيرد.